I recently started to work with a hospitality giant in Scotland. Last week I wrote a blog that originated from something a member of their People Team said during one of my trainings to their leadership teams. Her words told me a lot about the culture that was being created in the setting. When I … Continue reading The Right People, The Right Culture: Why Recruitment Matters
Reporting a Colleague Shouldn’t Mean Ending Their Career
I was recently working with a world-leading hospitality company when someone from the people team made a statement that really impressed me. The staff member said to an assembled group of leaders, “Just because you report a colleague doesn’t mean they will always lose their job.” I thought, what a great response. Not because it … Continue reading Reporting a Colleague Shouldn’t Mean Ending Their Career
Sometimes the most important thing we can do is interrupt – World Suicide Prevention Day, 10 September 2026
Suicide is not an abstract subject for me. In 2008, I lost my dad to suicide. That experience has stayed with me. It has shaped how I think about prevention, about friendship, about silence and, increasingly, about the responsibility we all have to notice when someone is struggling. So today, on World Suicide Prevention Day, … Continue reading Sometimes the most important thing we can do is interrupt – World Suicide Prevention Day, 10 September 2026
Disturb the Silence: Why the British Army Needs More People Willing to Speak Up
“People talking without speaking, people hearing without listening…”. Simon & Garfunkel’s “The Sound of Silence” was never written about military culture. Yet its central idea has a striking relevance to the modern British Army. Sometimes the most dangerous sound in an organisation isn’t shouting. It is silence. Silence when someone makes a sexualised joke. Silence … Continue reading Disturb the Silence: Why the British Army Needs More People Willing to Speak Up
“A Man Ain’t A Man Unless He’s Fought The Fight.”
Be A Man – The 3 most destructive words a boy can hear. What the hell does it mean? It is one of the most striking lines in Walls by the Kings of Leon. On the surface, it sounds like a celebration of toughness. But listen more closely, and the song is about something much … Continue reading “A Man Ain’t A Man Unless He’s Fought The Fight.”
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